
the lemonade stand

by TLS Counselling
Life's lemons: It's about so much more than simply "making lemonade."
About
Welcome to the lemonade stand where we specialize in both psychotherapy, family and relationship counselling, and spiritually-integrated psychotherapy. Our resident Psychotherapist, Stephen Blackmore, has 15+ years of experience counselling in the specialties listed to the right.
Stephen has a passion for helping people cope with stress, life transitions, anxiety, depression, and a variety of other mental health challenges. His work as an Anglican minister included advanced studies in theology, spirituality, and philosophy. This experienced combined with his study of psychotherapy to qualify him to help clients work through the deconstruction (and sometimes reconstruction) of long-held belief systems related to religion, gender roles, and other complex doctrines.
If you are struggling to reconcile some aspect of your faith with what you're seeing and experiencing in real life, Stephen is the person you want to talk to. He is naturally empathetic and has much experience in helping to heal wounds created by religious trauma while still remaining respectful to your personal values and beliefs.
Additionally, as the father of two neurodivergent children (autism, ADHD, auDHD, LD - oh! the IEPs!) and the husband of a late-diagnosed neurodivergent and chronically-ill partner, he is especially well-equipped in reframing traditional psychotherapeutic techniques in a way that resonates with neurodivergent folks and/or their loved-ones. If you're neurodivergent or questioning, you've probably already experienced how many of therapeutic techniques seem to simply "not work" or even exacerbate issues. That's because neurodivergent brains often need different and unique approaches to therapy.
Stephen Blackmore RP MTS MPS Rev
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
15+ years experience as spiritual counsellor
Wellness Expert
Public Speaker

Top Specialties

Depression, Anxiety, Stress

Autism, ADHD, auDHD, Neurodivergence

Religious Deconstruction/ Reconstruction & Religious Trauma

Spiritual Direction

Chronic Illness, Caregiving, and Caregiver Fatigue

Life transitions
Other Specialties

Grief

Divorce, Step-parenting

Substance Use Disorders

Trauma, PTSD, CPTSD

Premarital, Marriage & Family Counselling




When Life Hands You Lemons...
We've all heard the old adage, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade." While I agree that it makes for a catchy saying and can be helpful for a lot of people, anyone who's gone through deep pain and struggle in life might consider this saying as pithy and simplistic. For example, not everyone who is handed life's lemons is also handed the other ingredients (sugar, water, etc.), skills, or ability to make lemonade. It's also important to note that not all lemons can or should be turned into lemonade.
Here at the lemonade stand, we specialize is helping you find ways to cope with the lemons of life, whether simple or complex, short-term or long-term, that are based in the unique context of your individual challenges, abilities, personal values, and identity. Sure, we can help you turn some of those lemons into lemonade. We may also help you figure out how to exchange them for something more useful to you. Or it might be best to just through those lemons out! What matters is that we acknowledge that the options and ease of choice are not the same for everyone. We want to meet you where you are and work within your unique life context.


“He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how” Nietzsche

Friedrich Nietzsche

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